By Jennifer Edwards
WINTER SPRINGS -- Young boys hurling knives and cracking whips might be
alarming at first glance, but in the back yard of Starlight Baptist
Church it's done with good intentions.
On most any Thursday evening, about a dozen youngsters are learning to
handle the dangerous weapons as members of the Starlight 1611 Crusaders
Boys Club, which aims to teach them discipline, responsibility and
respect. The club is named after the year the King James Bible was
printed.
John Bailey, a church member, founded the club about eight years ago as
a way to help guide boys into manhood.
Bailey uses combat weapons in his club because they are the tools he
knows best. A professional knife thrower, Bailey developed his talent
after a drunken driver struck his motorcycle in 1966. The accident
damaged his left leg and made more rigorous athletics impossible.
To stay in shape, Bailey focused on his knack for throwing knives. He
picked the sport up from his father and then honed his skills when he
served in the Army. The motorcycle accident happened just days before
the 19-year-old was to ship off to Vietnam. After his recovery, he still
served in the Army but was not sent overseas.
"You should use your talents to help others," said Bailey, 53, who runs
the club as a volunteer. "I would rather these boys throw knives in a
safe environment instead of sneaking one out of the kitchen and throwing
it into a tree. They might get hurt or break something, and all they're
learning is deception that way.
"I want this club to help the boys to be well-grounded. By the time they
are 12 years old, they should have no problem with their self-esteem. I
try to help them develop the character to do the right thing on their
own and not be malicious or destructive."
Bailey never had any children of his own, but he considers the club
members "my boys." He runs a tight ship. All the boys address him as
"Brother Bailey" or "Sir" and wear sharply creased uniforms of blue
shirts and fatigue pants. Military-type lineups and prayers kick off
each group meeting. When Bailey's authoritative but kindly voice rings
out over the group, the kids halt and listen.
On a recent evening, the boys practiced throwing 12-inch knives and
flicked bullwhips for about an hour as Bailey supervised and guided
them.
"That`s great. Look at that. He didn't miss one," Bailey called out
after 9-year-old Josh Posey threw a couple of knives into a target. "Way
to go, Josh."
Many of the boys said they enjoy the competitiveness and sportsmanship
of the club. Close friendships have developed among members, who can
join the club at age 8. "We know Brother Bailey will always be here for
us, and we can count on him," Josh said. "I look forward to this and
can`t wait `til Thursdays so I can see him and all my friends."
While some of the boys` parents admit to having uneasy nerves when they
first heard about the weapons, they now praise the club.
"I was scared at first that my son was going to come home and start
throwing knives, but that hasn`t happened," said Leo Dixon of Lake Mary,
whose 11-year-old son, Christopher, is a member. "They are taught to use
the knives and whips with caution and respect, not anger. It doesn`t
bother me because of the tight supervision here."
At a recent club meeting, Bailey started the night off by reading a few
Bible passages aloud and doling out some advice.
"Everything we have is a gift from God, not something we`re entitled
to," he told the boys. "When you`re dead and gone, you`re dead and gone.
All the material stuff that you have just isn`t important. Helping and
loving others is what will matter in 1,000 years. Keep that in mind.
That`s very important in your life."
Then the boys attacked a pile of old appliances and electronics
equipment. With Bailey`s help, they attempted to disassemble them and
identify their parts. The boys eventually will be tested on the
different types and uses of the tools they used in the exercise.
Bailey helped 11-year-old Shayne Garrow of Longwood unscrew the clear,
plastic cover of a tape recorder.
"Golly, this thing isn`t coming apart for anything," Bailey said when he
took over after Shayne made several unsuccessful attempts. Moments
later, the top of the recorder popped off and Bailey handed the machine
back to Shayne.
"Wow," Shayne said, impressed by Bailey`s strength. Then, he peered into
the machine and asked Bailey, "Is this the motor?"
"It sure is," Bailey nodded, then called all the boys over to take a
look at it, too.
Many parents said they have observed improvements in their sons after
they joined the club. The young boys, they said, are more willing to
take on leadership roles and responsibilities.
"Everything is positive," said Josh`s mother, Misty Posey of Winter
Springs. "I have not seen anything negative out of Josh. He`s growing in
the correct way now. It`s more than what any counselor could ever do for
him."
Dixon added, "A lot of men today don`t spend time with their children.
Clubs like this can help make up for that. Since my son has been
involved, he wants to help me whenever there`s anything to be done and
stays outdoors more instead of watching TV all the time."
Bailey hopes other adults start up such free youth clubs. Too many
youngsters are growing up without enough guidance, he said, and some
join gangs to feed their natural desire for fellowship.
"There`s a lot of kids out there that are just giving up," Bailey said,
"and it`s up to everyone to help as many as possible."
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